Very early in a relationship you should get an idea for the way a man feels about marriage. The types of questions people ask when they are getting to know each other would include things like do you see yourself getting married someday? Do you want kids? How many? Etc. Assuming you are with a man who does see marriage in his future, what can you do to get him to hurry up and propose? If that question is on your mind you have come to the right place. On this page we are going to cover some tips on how to get your boyfriend to propose.
If you are with a man who has no intention of ever getting married and starting a family, you really should end the relationship and move on. If your boyfriend has expressed an interest in starting a family at some point in the future, one thing you can do to expedite the process is to start bringing it up in casual conversation. You don’t have to be obvious but you can talk about someone you know who was recently married or engaged.
Another approach would be to have conversations about your future. Start a conversation off by saying something like, “if we were to get married one day,” and see how he reacts. Does he engage in the conversation or does he get uncomfortable and try to change the subject?
Communication is important but you want to avoid giving him an ultimatum. Telling him that the two of you are going to get married or it’s over, will more than likely result in the end of the relationship. Some women also take the extreme approach of breaking up with their boyfriend and hoping that he will propose after he realizes how much he misses her. It’s not a good idea to break up with your boyfriend unless you are prepared for the relationship to be over.
Another way to plant the seed of a proposal in his mind is to get some third-party help. Have a mutual friend ask him some questions about when and if he might ask you to marry him. Of course you don’t want your friend to grill him and give him the third degree, you just want to plant the seed in his mind that marriage is the next logical step in the relationship.
While you are dating, try to be the best girlfriend you can be and continue to drop some subtle hints once in a while. Eventually he will get the message and if he does see a future with you, he will pop the question.
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I write my articles with my own life experiences and the knowledge gained by talking to hundreds of people about what attracted them to their life partner and compelled them to commit to marriage.