Are you looking for a way to get your boyfriend back? What your best bet may be is to try to find out what went wrong in your relationship and fix it. Your hope is for your ex to see the changes you have made and see that things are looking better. It sounds too simple but it is advice that can actually work.
What you do not want to do is take complete responsibility for what may have happened, unless of course you are responsible for it. Women have a way of carrying the burden of the relationship but don’t do it unless you are at fault.
Finding and fixing the issues that may have caused your break up are great, just do not accept all the blame if it is not yours. If you think you cannot seek out the problem with an open mind seek the advice of family and friends. Let them tell you what they think of your ex boyfriend.
If they have something negative to say do not stick up for him, just listen with an open mind. You want to know the truth, not try to justify why you should stay with him when it may not be a good idea to do so. At this point you are trying to find out if you’re correct in wanting him back.
When you have reached the point you know what you did wrong or if it was your ex, it is time to start making changes. Now if it was your ex that needs fixing there is really not much you can do, he must do it on his own. But you can make improvements in yourself that will benefit you and your ex.
At the least it will make you a better person for it. The time spent making improvements to yourself will pay off for you regardless of the outcome with your ex boyfriend. Your future relationships could only be better because of it. Your ex may be impressed enough for what you have done that he now desires to be a better man.
If that happens and you get back together your relationship could be better than it ever was. But before all this happens give him some space and do not bother him too much. Enjoy yourself and let him relax some and think about you. When you have sorted things out for yourself then you can contact him.
Ask him if he would like to meet with you as friends without bringing up the fact you hope to get back together. If he says yes just have fun and see if you can keep seeing each other in the future as friends. You are letting him see the new you and hopefully he will like what he sees and want you back as his girlfriend.