Rebounding back from a break up is one of those things that is going to tell you a little bit about yourself and how resilient you really are. No one wants things to change when they are content with the way that they are going and certainly no one wants to get their heart broken by someone. Still, the way that you deal with a break up and the consequent act of rebounding back is going to show you a little bit about who you are and what you want and even what you are capable of.
Essentially, there are 3 basic ways that you can rebound back from breaking up with your girlfriend:
1) You can decide that it is time to move on, even if you’d rather not have to.
This is probably the thing that most men should choose to do when they find that they have been dumped and they feel like their heart is really broken. As much as it might be hard to deal with feeling that way, knowing that you have what it takes to handle that situation and come out okay and ready to move on is going to be a big boost to your confidence and your happiness. And, as long as you know that you really are okay and ready to move on, you probably will find that it doesn’t really have to be such a bad thing after all. There are a lot of good looking women out there who are available, right?
2) You can decide that the thing to do is to win back your girlfriend.
Sometimes this is the right course of action to take and sometimes it is not. It really depends on so many factors that it is hard to say whether or not this would be a good thing to do. Some guys who really should move on get caught up in the idea of winning back their girlfriend and it never really pans out for them and that usually has quite the negative effect on them and the way that their social life goes from that point on. On the other hand, there are also lots of stories of guys being able to win back their girlfriend and getting what they want and being totally happy that they tried to win back the woman they truly love.
3) You can decide to do nothing at all.
This is the way that a lot of guys go about dealing with a painful break up. They don’t really try to move on and they don’t really try to win back their girlfriend. They just kind of go on with their life as best they can, but they don’t try to find someone new and they don’t try to patch things up. You really don’t want to do this, because it really doesn’t lead to much in the way of happiness or contentment.