Your man won’t leave you without leaving clues that he’s about to leave. He won’t knock the door out of the blue and say, “Shannon, we can no longer get together. Thanks for all the wonderful moments that you’ve given me.” Not at all! He will leave hidden clues first–and get you noticed them first–before telling you such a heartbreaking statement. Don’t believe me? Here are the clues.
1. The moment of silence
Silence is golden. Yes, but not in your relationship. Silence means lack of communication–lack of love spirit. Imagine being with your guy all day and never speak with each other even for a minute. Isn’t that horrible? Yes, it is. And it’s a sign that your relationship is in the brink of destruction.
Silence is the most obvious clue that your man will leave when he no longer feels comfortable with the relationship. In the moment of silence, your man is contemplating whether the relationship is worth to keep on. He’s contemplating the best way to leave. And unless you take the initiative to fill the gap, it might be too late and you’ll be sorry.
Your man suddenly becomes unavailable to you. You panic. You get mad. You try to call him, he’s busy. You try to text him, he doesn’t reply. You try to email him, he ignores. And when you truly meet him, at last, he doesn’t focus. He’s there, but he isn’t there.
This sign of disappearance is a clue that he left for you to decode. What’s behind his sudden disappearance? He wants you to find out. Did you say something wrong? Did you do something wrong? No? You don’t understand? Then, if that’s the case, he’ll leave.
Let me tell you the key to decode his behavior: respect.
3. Weird actions
He doesn’t act like he usually does. “What’s wrong with him? He’s weird.” You might think that it’s your fault. You might think that there is something in him that needs to be addressed. But, unless you investigate it further, you’ll never know.
His weird actions stem from his uncomfortable feelings toward you. So, unless you make him comfortable around you, you’ll see him leave shortly.
Perhaps, he feels guilty around you because he’s cheating with another woman. That’s just an assumption. Or, perhaps he has his own problem going on in his mind. Again, that’s only an assumption. But, whatever it is, find out the culprit. You’ll need to know the root problem before you can convince him to be with you.
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