I know that most guys ask questions related to what they should say to try and get back with their ex girlfriend, but sometimes it can be just as good to ask what it is that you shouldn’t say if you want her back. That’s because once something has been said, you really can’t take it back as much as you’d might like to and saying the wrong thing to an ex girlfriend can totally ruin any chance that you have of being able to get her back. So, what are these 3 examples of what you shouldn’t say to your ex girlfriend if you want her back?
Here they are:
1. I think about you all of the time.
When a woman wants to hear that you think about her all of the time, it can be a great thing to actually say it. However, when a woman doesn’t want to hear that coming from you and you say it, you can make her feel really uncomfortable. She might feel like she doesn’t know what she is supposed to say in response to that and that can create one of those really uncomfortable silences that you can’t recover from. It’s not so much that you shouldn’t ever say something like this, it’s really that there is a time and a place and if you get it wrong – it can really mess things up for you.
2. You should give me another chance.
This is one of those statements that can come across kind of like you are begging her and kind of like you are telling her what to do. Either way, you are going to end up losing out if you tell her that she should give you another chance. I don’t think that there are too many success stories that start off with a guy telling his ex girlfriend that she should give him another chance. It’s way more likely that you will get her back if she wants to give you another chance without you having to tell her to give you one.
3. It was your fault too.
It might be a true statement. She might be just as much at fault for the break up as you are. She might even be more at fault. However, telling her this is not really going to do much to make her want you back. It might feel good saying it for about five minutes, but blaming her is not going to make her want you back.