It’s a shocking reality when you see your man pulling away from you just when things start to get serious. When you’re serious about the relationship, and see this happening to you, then you normally will get mad and trying to do something that you shouldn’t do. Perhaps you’ll yell at him and demand commitment in a forceful way. Well, this is how most women do when things seem to go out of their way.
However, think about the effect in your relationship in the long-term. When you do that, you will only affect your relationship in a negative way. This kind of behavior only makes your man want to pull away further from you. And what will happen next? If you keep the rope tight, then it will eventually be broken off.
It’s the same in your relationship. When your man is getting too anxious of your behavior, and when you push him too much, he will initiate the break up. Eventually. It might be soon or later, but it’s likely to happen to you. So, be careful.
What you need to do then? When your man is pulling away from you when things start to get serious, you need to keep yourself cool. It doesn’t matter whether your man will disappear from you for a week or a month. If you keep yourself cool, he won’t go too far. So, you need to act as if nothing serious happened.
Then, you want to know what’s inside the mind of your man at the time. What makes him want to pull away from you? Is there any specific reason for him to do so? Please note that as long as he’s not yet telling you that he will no longer see you, it will be alright to expect him to come back to you again. However, when he suddenly tells you to break up with him, then it will be a different story.
In this case, you need to make sure that his reason for the break up is a valid reason. Why? If you want to keep him in your relationship, you need to understand him fully. If the break up decision is caused by you, then you must be willing to change to preserve the relationship. Remember that break up decision is not carved in stone. Most of the time. You can still change your partner’s decision by doing something that will attract him back as soon as possible.